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jeremy parmet's avatar

This is great. Since I read Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg, I'd add one thing to this: celebration. Just straight up telling yourself you did a job and letting yourself feel good. The more instantaneous the link between beginning the behavior and the celebration, the better, even if it can be helpful even a while after you do something. I started to practice this a few months ago, I've gotten good at tuning into the feeling on demand, developed some of my own unique celebrations, and the behaviors I celebrate seem to be the ones that grow faster and remain consistent. You can even use it to kind of shape behaviors and build skills within a habit, or more general things like pushing through discomfort. I've started to celebrate the feeling that I want to stop doing something, because that feeling is an indicator of growth - although I'm not too ambitious about pushing and pushing, I just want to consistently go a bit past the edge. Since I read about it in the book and began to practice it, I see it missing in many other writings about tiny habits or gains, like this piece.

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Jeff Filler's avatar

Good stuff. I did the math ... he's right! Just 1 percent each day. If I improve 1 percent of what I am today, each day, after a year, that's 365 percent, or over 3 times what I am today. If I improve 1 percent today, so that tomorrow I'm 1 percent improved, and improve on that 1 percent, and so on ... then, yeah ... YEAH! ... at a year I'll be 3700 percent ... 37, almost 38 times what I am today. Here's the catch. One percent is so small, that it's easy to discount, ignore. It's so close to zero that we think we can get to (or stay at) the same place, whether or not we do it. On the other hand, one percent is so EASY ... WHY NOT! We think changes come in big chunks, and sometimes they do. And negative change can also happen in big chunks. Small, continuous changes, may indeed be more lasting. I've got some changes I'm thinking of. I'M GONNA START TOMORROW, AND KEEP GOING!

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